Huh, thanks for the overview. Someone else likened their condition of having chronic pain as having another dominant in their relationship whose requirements must be accommodated by everyone else in the relationship. is really insightful, and I think is also true outside a BDSM context: rather than battling or struggling or suffering with disability, invite it for dinner!
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Date: 2014-11-09 08:57 pm (UTC)having another dominant in their relationship whose requirements must be
accommodated by everyone else in the relationship. is really insightful, and I think is also true outside a BDSM context: rather than battling or struggling or suffering with disability, invite it for dinner!